Sunday, November 25, 2012

Read This Before You Get Engaged! - Relationship Advice - Giving ...

Guys, this one is for you. ?Engagement season? is just around the corner, and before you think about proposing to your girlfriend, there are a few things you need to know. Read this before you get engaged!

Read this before getting engaged

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Grand Gestures Are Good. Obnoxious Public Proposals Are Not. It seems like men have forgotten the simple romantic gesture of dropping to one knee and whipping out a box with a dazzling diamond engagement ring in it. These days, proposals are often big shows, with an equally big audience. But what most women want is a grand gesture, not her face up on the JumboTron with her hair in a ponytail and baseball cap. Think romantic, not showy. A weekend getaway to a cozy inn, a room filled with candles and flowers, these are the way to a woman?s heart.

Never Propose During a Fight. There is nothing worse than a guy proposing marriage during or immediately after a fight. Contrary to what some men think, asking your girlfriend to marry you will not patch up an argument. What it will do is make her think your proposal is insincere and that you are only proposing to end a fight or get out of trouble. Even if what you were fighting about was that she is mad you have not gotten engaged yet, never propose in the heat of anger. Wait until a happier time.

Get a Gorgeous Ring. Get Help If Necessary. From the moment a woman gets engaged, all everyone wants to do is admire her engagement ring. Make sure that it is a piece of wedding jewelry that she will be proud to show off to her friends, family, and random strangers. Now not everyone can afford a 2 ct. diamond (nor does every woman even want such a showy ring), but you should take care to choose a ring that is beautiful and that fits her style. Don?t just automatically buy a diamond solitaire. There are many more interesting and unique ring designs available, some of which (like a diamond halo) will enhance the appearance of a more modest center diamond. If you do not feel confident in selecting a unique ring by yourself, by all means get help from your girlfriend?s best friend.

Don?t Be Upset If She Becomes Obsessed With the Wedding. Once you do finally pop the question, your fiancee will move into full wedding planning mode. It may seem to you like all she does is talk about the wedding, and that might well be true. You might even worry that your fiancee is more interested in the wedding than she is in you. That also might be a valid concern, but fear not, because it is a temporary situation. Try not to take it personally if your fiancee spends an inordinate amount of time on wedding planning to the point where you feel a bit neglected. Soon enough the wedding day will be in the past, and you will have her back again, this time as your wife.

Bridget Mora gives advice about weddings, engagements, and relationships for the customers of www.silverlandjewelry.com. Get inspired by the most beautiful wedding designs, jewelry for weddings, bridesmaid dresses and more when you visit SilverlandJewelry on Pinterest and Lover.ly!

Source: http://www.couplesadvice.com/read-this-before-you-get-engaged/

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